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Saturday

Hot Russian Women

Meeting a hot Russian woman who would welcome a romantic adventure with a western man is not difficult. There are hundreds of matchmaking agencies in the Internet to help you with your search. They will also provide you with the necessary cultural information and dating tips.

You are not even expected to learn the Russian language to communicate with a lady. Most of the women registered online with a dating agency speak English. If you are attracted to each other, your Russian lady would be eager to improve her English with your assistance, and will teach you some Russian language lessons too.

Modern Russian women know that developing their relationships with foreigners requires efforts and hard work on their part. They will do their best to demonstrate that they are smart, attractive and interesting to be with. Active and sensible, they will make you appreciate them for all their talents and treat them with respect and love.

In their turn, hot Russian brides do not expect too much from you. They want to find a guy who would truly care for them and enjoy being together as a couple. They need a person who would be committed to the relationship and do his best to make it work. Russian women looking for western men also dream of creating strong and happy families and becoming good wives and mothers.

Dating Russian Women Is Challenging

Single Russian women would eagerly date with western men. These relationships can be really exciting and fun opening some unexplored opportunities for both partners. We strongly recommend you to learn essential things about the culture and traditions in Russia before finding and dating a lady from Russia.

Here is some information about the specifics of dating Russian women that can be of help to you.

The initial phase of dating Russian women is a period when you get to know each other better and try to impress your future partner. This task is a challenging one because it not so easy to win a Russian lady’s heart as it seems in the beginning.

It is very important to get prepared to your first meeting with your Russian girlfriend. Learn to pronounce her name and some phrases in Russian in a proper way. Find out as much as you can about her preferences. Take care about the first impression you will make on her, and get dressed appropriately and neatly before the meeting. It will be great if you buy nice flowers for her.

If you do care for her, your behavior should demonstrate it. Give her time to get accustomed to you, especially if she has never met a foreigner before. Treat her and other people with respect.

Even if you hire an interpreter, avoid relying on him or her all the time. Do your best to establish effective communication with your lady without the interpreter’s assistance.

You should also know that Russian women accept the men’s appreciation of their beauty as something natural and even required; moreover, they do their best to look great in their every-day environment and to be admired by the opposite sex. Women in Russia usually appreciate gentlemanly signs of attention, such as men’s opening the doors in front of them, helping with carrying bags, paying for dinner in a restaurant, etc. So do not be afraid to be gallant and graceful while communicating with Russian women, otherwise your manners will be considered impolite or even rude. But remember that offers for paid company or sex would insult her and avert from you immediately.

Friday

When You Marry a Russian Lady, Do You Marry The Whole Family?

Russian ladies make good and supportive wives, but before proposing to your sweetheart it is wise to get to know her family better.

Russian people usually have very tight family relations and are used to relying on each other. It is very common when older and younger generations of one family live under the same roof. Individualism and egocentrism are foreign to traditional upbringing in Russian families. Family is still one of the highest values in the Russian culture.

Getting introduced to and learning about your future father and mother in law may save you some difficulties in the future. You are going to become part of their family. As minimum, you should respect their culture and traditions. Your future wife is a member of a very this family too, that is the point. If you understand that simple thing, it will become much easier for you to communicate with your new relatives.

When you get married, remember to ask your wife about her parents and family and how things are going on in Russia from time to time. This will make your relations even stronger, because she will see that you do care for her and her feelings after leaving Russia. Most probably, she will miss her mother and father and other close relatives and friends a lot. She will be grateful to you for your efforts to understand and accept her feelings, and your sincere support will contribute to making your marriage fulfilling and successful.

Choosing a Russian Romance Tour

Some international marriage agencies organize the so-called Russian romance tours, which present a good opportunity to western men in finding their future wives in Russia. If you fail to find a potential bride meeting your criteria online, then contact the bride tour agency and ask for guidance and help. Professional matchmakers know their female clients well and they will do everything in their power to find the right single woman for you. The prices depend on the period of your stay and the regional specifics of the area you are going to.

The matchmakers usually convene a group of western men and take care of all the logistics. When you arrive to a certain city or town in Russia, the agency invites single Russian females registered with them to gather in a restaurant or another place to meet with the male candidates from abroad. There are always much more women than men at these events.

The organizers do their best to create a friendly atmosphere and make you feel at ease. All the participants have badges with their names on them. You can freely walk around to get introduced to all women you like. It is an opportunity to exchange telephone numbers, mail addresses and any contact details that will help you keep in touch after you leave Russia.

It is great if you get prepared by listing clear criteria for your search. Keep in mind what is important for you in the relationship and ask the key questions to the female candidates you meet. Always take notes, because you will be most probably overwhelmed by the information you get during these meetings.

There are no rules about how much time you should spend with the women you meet during the tour events. You can pay a little attention to everyone or focus your interest only on one lady. Anyway, try to filter your dating prospects and be only with those who are meeting your interests and needs.

If you feel unsatisfied with the candidates you meet, apply for assistance to the agency every time you need it. Do not wait until the end of the tour. Last but not least, if you have communication problems during these dates, ask your agency for a professional interpreter. Understanding small language nuances plays a key role in establishing successful communication with the women you like.

Thursday

Establishing Successful Communication with Women in Russia

What are the ways to meet with a Russian lady and learn her better? There are several options, and one of them is when you decide on your personal travel to Russia. You will certainly meet many women wherever you go, and practically in any sphere of human activities. While you are living in the country studying the Russian language, the people and their unique culture, you will be able to communicate with many interesting and smart ladies in person. It will be great if you have at least six months to spend in this country and learn the specifics of inter-cultural communication better.

Here is a piece of information that might be useful to you. There is no law about sexual harassment in Russia, although the constitution proclaims equal rights of men and women. The absence of the anti-harassment legislation does not mean that women want to be harassed, of course. But there is a big difference among Russian and Western women’s mentality and perception of the problem in this regard. For example, an attractive Russian lady would never think of suing a man in a court for a direct glance at her, like some western ladies do stating that it is an attempt to sexually harass her. Russian women accept the men’s appreciation of their beauty as something natural and even required; moreover, they do their best to look great in their every-day environment and to be admired by the opposite sex. Women in Russia usually appreciate gentlemanly signs of attention, such as men’s opening the doors in front of them, helping with carrying bags, paying for dinner in a restaurant, etc. So do not be afraid to be gallant and graceful while communicating with Russian women, otherwise your manners will be considered impolite or even rude.

Saturday

Secrets of Successful Online Dating

Communicating with someone through the Internet matchmaking services can be real fun. Your circle of friends and accountancies widens, and finally you find your special one you have been looking for. If you are new to online dating, learn about the basic principles making your communication successful.

1. Careful choice of websites.

Search for reliable web resources. When you start your online communications, be careful with someone who seems too good to be true in the beginning. Listen to your intuitive voice.

2. Self-protection.

Do not provide your full name and contact details in your profile on the dating website. Also use a free email address before you feel comfortable to share your real email address and other personal details with a person you like.

3. Don’t take it on trust alone.

Make your decisions wisely. Use your common sense in defining someone’s honesty and decency, as well as motives of communicating with you. Request several photos of your fiancĂ© to have a better idea of his or her looks and surroundings.

4. Online chatting is not enough.

Exchanging messages online will not give you the full idea of someone’s social and communication skills. Practice telephone conversations too, but try not to reveal your home phone number in the very beginning.

6. Meet in person when you feel prepared and safe.

You should feel safe and ready while making arrangements to meet your online friend in person. Think honestly if any manipulation techniques had been used to make you feel obliged to meet. Arrange the first meeting in a place where you would feel secure.

Share your plans with someone you trust. Leave all contact details possible if you are going to another country. Leave copies of your documents with this friend or relative of yours. Agree on a key word or phrase that will tell your friend or relative that you are in danger if you pronounce it during your telephone conversation with him or her. Register at your country’s embassy upon the arrival. Do your best in providing your own security.

Wednesday

Carefully Consider the Service of Email Forwarding and Translation

The majority of matchmaking agencies in the Internet provide the services of forwarding and translating your emails for your Russian ladies. When you send an email in English or another language addressed to your girlfriend to the website, the letter is forwarded to an affiliated Russian marriage agency. The specialists also translate your email into Russian in case you ask for this service. The translated version of your letter is then sent together with the original to your girlfriend’s postal address.

As far as the regular postal services are concerned, do request the local marriage agency to mail all your correspondence registered. See to it, because if your letters are not registered, some of them can be lost. If you pay for this service and want to ensure that it works, ask your lady if the letters she gets from you are sent by registered mail. Sometimes Western men found out that the local agencies just pocketed the extra money for the requested mail registration and sent the correspondence by the ordinary mail. A reputable agency would never do anything like that.

Be very careful to avoid such situations and choose well-proven matchmaking services. When you do like a Russian woman you are communicating with, do not think that she had withdrawn or lost interest in you if she stopped writing you back. Maybe she just did not receive your letters. You have to be patient. Send your letters to her once again and make sure that she gets them. If she does not answer you after a while, then you can assume that she has changed her mind.

Tuesday

What Is Wrong With Russian Men?

One comment before proceeding with this article: it does not and cannot describe the situation of all Russian women who want to find their husbands abroad with the help of online matchmaking services. Nevertheless, there are some common reasons that make them look for their “second halves” in another country.

The main reason that makes beautiful Russian ladies register with Internet dating and marriage agencies is the realization of the fact that the majority of local men do not meet their criteria at all. It is a widespread observation that many Russian men are drunkards, womanizers and women abusers rolled into one. The level of domestic violence is really high in Russia: at least 10,000 women are killed by their spouses or partners annually.

Of course, not every man would beat and abuse his girlfriend or wife. Nevertheless, women’s common perception of men in the former Soviet Union countries is that they are infantile, shallow-hearted, rude and lazy. In addition, women who have ever encountered or, worse, lived with this type of men feel emotionally, physically and economically insecure.

Historically, women in Russia were the keepers of the family. They worked hard for the sake of their big families, including husbands, children and other relatives, putting aside their own needs. Modern Russian women are both independent and capable of giving. They still value family ties and are loving and caring.

Taking into consideration everything mentioned above, it becomes clear that Russian women apply for the services of matchmaking agencies to meet decent and responsible men to form loving and fulfilling relationships with. They look for compatible partners whom they can rely on and trust, because they failed to meet a person like that in their own country.

Thursday

Some Interesting Facts You Should Know

Do you know that percentage of scammers in Russian matchmaking agencies is inappreciable in comparison with the huge number of honest candidates who hope to find their true love and fulfilling relationships? But how can you tell who is who?

Here is a piece of advice for you that might work out.

The pictures of your Russian bride can help you check the lady’s identity. Register with an agency that provides delivery services. Send flowers or some presents to the candidate you like with the request of her photo confirmation. Scammers prefer to be anonymous, they just abhor it. In addition, the scams actors can be men, not women. At least, you will be able to confirm that your lady looks the same as on your pictures and that her postal address and telephone numbers are real.

Putting your efforts into the process of looking for your Russian bride can be rewarding. Once you meet in person the nicest Russian woman eager to marry you and build a happy family you, the risk-taking will pay off. 

Here is some statistics provided by the United States Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) on the success rates in international marriages. According to USCIS, couples formed with the help of matchmaking agencies and Internet dating services have a lower divorce rate than other US couples. Thanks to these agencies and online communications, from 4,000 to 6,000 international couples get married annually in the USA. At least 80 percent of these marriages have lasted over the years.

Wednesday

Read through the Lines

International marriage agencies' efforts are aimed at bringing you and your beautiful Russian lady together. That is their ultimate purpose, and business. The future development of your relationship does not bother them. If you believe everything what marriage agencies tell you without infiltrating the information through the criticizing prism of your own common sense, you put your relationship at a big risk.

Use your critical thinking. First of all, try to view your expectations of your future Russian wife against the real information you know about the lady you communicate with. Do they coincide?

Now have just a bit of practice. Go to any dating site and join it. Look through the personal data of Russian women aged 21-25 in the catalogue. Do you find anything that unites these "hot Russian models"? Of course you do! The majority of these ladies are well educated. At least ninety percent of them would have college or university degrees. Then ask yourself how this information goes together with the agencies' statements about Russian women being so family-oriented! Why would these pretty girls study diligently for four years at a college or five to seven years at a university? Is it likely that these ladies are going to become happy housewives and forget about their professional career development once and for all? Think about it and read carefully through the lines.