When You Marry a Russian Lady, Do You Marry The Whole Family?

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Russian ladies make good and supportive wives, but before proposing to your sweetheart it is wise to get to know her family better.

Russian people usually have very tight family relations and are used to relying on each other. It is very common when older and younger generations of one family live under the same roof. Individualism and egocentrism are foreign to traditional upbringing in Russian families. Family is still one of the highest values in the Russian culture.

Getting introduced to and learning about your future father and mother in law may save you some difficulties in the future. You are going to become part of their family. As minimum, you should respect their culture and traditions. Your future wife is a member of a very this family too, that is the point. If you understand that simple thing, it will become much easier for you to communicate with your new relatives.

When you get married, remember to ask your wife about her parents and family and how things are going on in Russia from time to time. This will make your relations even stronger, because she will see that you do care for her and her feelings after leaving Russia. Most probably, she will miss her mother and father and other close relatives and friends a lot. She will be grateful to you for your efforts to understand and accept her feelings, and your sincere support will contribute to making your marriage fulfilling and successful.

Choosing a Russian Romance Tour

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Some international marriage agencies organize the so-called Russian romance tours, which present a good opportunity to western men in finding their future wives in Russia. If you fail to find a potential bride meeting your criteria online, then contact the bride tour agency and ask for guidance and help. Professional matchmakers know their female clients well and they will do everything in their power to find the right single woman for you. The prices depend on the period of your stay and the regional specifics of the area you are going to.

The matchmakers usually convene a group of western men and take care of all the logistics. When you arrive to a certain city or town in Russia, the agency invites single Russian females registered with them to gather in a restaurant or another place to meet with the male candidates from abroad. There are always much more women than men at these events.

The organizers do their best to create a friendly atmosphere and make you feel at ease. All the participants have badges with their names on them. You can freely walk around to get introduced to all women you like. It is an opportunity to exchange telephone numbers, mail addresses and any contact details that will help you keep in touch after you leave Russia.

It is great if you get prepared by listing clear criteria for your search. Keep in mind what is important for you in the relationship and ask the key questions to the female candidates you meet. Always take notes, because you will be most probably overwhelmed by the information you get during these meetings.

There are no rules about how much time you should spend with the women you meet during the tour events. You can pay a little attention to everyone or focus your interest only on one lady. Anyway, try to filter your dating prospects and be only with those who are meeting your interests and needs.

If you feel unsatisfied with the candidates you meet, apply for assistance to the agency every time you need it. Do not wait until the end of the tour. Last but not least, if you have communication problems during these dates, ask your agency for a professional interpreter. Understanding small language nuances plays a key role in establishing successful communication with the women you like.

What Is Wrong With Russian Men?

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One comment before proceeding with this article: it does not and cannot describe the situation of all Russian women who want to find their husbands abroad with the help of online matchmaking services. Nevertheless, there are some common reasons that make them look for their “second halves” in another country.

The main reason that makes beautiful Russian ladies register with Internet dating and marriage agencies is the realization of the fact that the majority of local men do not meet their criteria at all. It is a widespread observation that many Russian men are drunkards, womanizers and women abusers rolled into one. The level of domestic violence is really high in Russia: at least 10,000 women are killed by their spouses or partners annually.

Of course, not every man would beat and abuse his girlfriend or wife. Nevertheless, women’s common perception of men in the former Soviet Union countries is that they are infantile, shallow-hearted, rude and lazy. In addition, women who have ever encountered or, worse, lived with this type of men feel emotionally, physically and economically insecure.

Historically, women in Russia were the keepers of the family. They worked hard for the sake of their big families, including husbands, children and other relatives, putting aside their own needs. Modern Russian women are both independent and capable of giving. They still value family ties and are loving and caring.

Taking into consideration everything mentioned above, it becomes clear that Russian women apply for the services of matchmaking agencies to meet decent and responsible men to form loving and fulfilling relationships with. They look for compatible partners whom they can rely on and trust, because they failed to meet a person like that in their own country.