Single Young Women from Russia: What is so attractive About Them?

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Present-day young women living in Russia can be characterized as a wild blend of contradictory features. They can be sentimental and practical, ingenuous and cautious, modest and tempting at the same time. This amazing mixture of features draws the attention of men from all over the world to hot Russian brides.

Indeed, modern Russian girls do not necessarily share the traditional views on gender roles in the family. They usually get good education and can be very selective in the choice of professional paths being smart and ambitious.

Many young ladies in Russia are well aware of their attractiveness and use it skillfully to dazzle men and break their hearts. They dress stylishly and behave boldly. Perfumes, jewelry, shoes, coats, purses, make up – every tool is used by single young Russian women to charm the representatives of the opposite sex. What might be the main purpose of this approach? – Usually, finding a compatible partner and marrying him.

Many single young women keep on living together with their parents even after graduating from colleges and universities. Traditionally, parents tend to control the lives of their daughters when they are of age and older. It makes these single Russian girls want to get married as soon as possible expecting that marriage will give them freedom from the controlling parents. Once they are 21, they start realizing that urge that makes them want to have a husband, who would provide for their new family and with whom they would feel in control of their own lives. They also know that the older they get, the less chances they would have to find decent husbands in Russia.

That is also one of the major reasons why so many single Russian girls get registered with the numerous online matchmaking services that promise to find western husbands for them.

Take these considerations into account while looking for your potential Russian wife and analyzing her motives of getting married to you.

Your First Meeting with a Russian Woman

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It is very important to get prepared to your first meeting with your lady. First of all, find out as much as you can about her preferences. Take care about the first impression you will make on her, and get dressed appropriately and neatly before the meeting. It will be great if you buy nice flowers for her, except for yellow roses which are considered bad luck.

If you do care for her, your behaviour should demonstrate it. Give her time to get accustomed to you, especially if she has never met a foreigner before. Treat her and other people with respect. Do not try to find out if she wants to marry you when you meet her for the first time.

Even if you hire an interpreter, avoid relying on him or her all the time. Do your best to establish effective communication with your lady without the interpreter’s assistance.

If she wants you to meet with her family, it is a chance for you to get to know your fiancé much better. Paying a visit to her family will show your respect for the Russian culture and prove the seriousness of your intentions. Again, think about the first impression you will make on her parents and other relatives. Dress appropriately. If you are offered alcohol, it is better to accept and drink just a little. The same concerns the food prepared by the mother. Usually Russians are very hospitable hosts, so when they invite you to their homes, a real feast is coming.

Common Mistakes to Be Avoided While Communicating With Your Russian Bride

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Courting a Russian lady is a challenging process. It is impossible not to make mistakes, because both of you belong to different cultures and have your own backgrounds and experiences. But there are some common mistakes that you should avoid.

Not Being Serious. Usually your lady would give you four to six months to decide whether you are going to meet her in person or not. If you do not come to her country in a few months afterwards, your lady might decide that you are not serious and start communicating with somebody else. Usually it takes about eight to ten months for her to maintain online communication with you before giving up. Why is it necessary for you go to her country? Because she would never obtain her fiancé visa before two of you meet in person at least once and document it. In addition, it is important to ensure that two of you like and suite each other. You should be ready to invest your emotional, financial and physical resources to make this happen.

Being Inconsistent. If you do not maintain regular correspondence with her, or are prone to changing your mind about the decisions that had been made about visiting her, etc., she is likely to stop wasting her time on you. Women registering with the matchmaking services are that serious and expect something different from their potential husbands. They have to make sure you are responsible, consistent and see your relationship as equal partnership. They deserve respect and love.

Failing to Grab Her Attention in Your Introduction Letter. Be sure that your intentions are clearly stated in your introduction letter. Russian ladies are looking for potential husbands, not just pen friends. Provide your photos. If a woman you like does not respond to you, ask her again. She might change her mind. Maybe she could not understand what you had written, so it would be great to request the translation of your letters. She would be pleased to understand the whole message, and might want to write you back.

What does marrying a Foreigner Mean to Russian Women?

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The majority of Russian ladies coming to the United States as brides and wives are intelligent women with good careers left behind in Russia. When they marry an American, they have to leave all what they had known in their home country: their relatives, acquaintances and cultural roots for the sake of the newly created union of two people.

The woman’s decision to follow her future husband to his country is very serious indeed. Her fiancé is the only friend she has in that country. She thinks he is the only person she can rely on, although she might not know him very well. It is ok for Russians to be dependable on their environment, by the way, which is just another reason for women’s full trust in their future husbands as their sole providers and protectors.

The greatest fear of a Russian bride moving to another country is that the man she depends on would be gone and she would have to return to Russia and start everything from scratch. Neither would she like to stay in an unknown country without any support.

Marriage is a value to a Russian woman. It is not in her plans to get rid of you once she has got her green card. And if she is unhappy in her marriage, she would not stay with you for the reason of higher living standards in your country. Country has nothing to do with it. Intimate relationship between two of you are of the greatest priority for her. You mean the world for her.

Negative Comments You Are Likely to Hear If You Marry a Russian Woman

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If you are planning to marry a beautiful Russian bride and going to share the news with your acquaintances, most likely you will get their negative feedback. You might hear, “She will use you to get abroad. Once she is married and gets her green card in the States, she will get rid of you.”

For your information, Russian ladies look for potential husbands in many places: Canada, Australia, New Zealand, Scandinavia, Western Europe, etc. They would rather prefer immigrating to Europe than America, because Europe is not so far from Russia and trips back and forth are more affordable. In addition, Russia has much more in common with European life and culture than with America.

Nevertheless, when a Russian lady wants to find her lifetime partner, the country has nothing to do with it. She will follow the guy wherever he lives.

By the way, Russian women looking for husbands abroad also get negative reactions from their own environment.

What are the roots of the negative reactions? - Usually ignorance and cynicism about anything in the world. A cynical person can make negative comments about major things in life that are valuable for other people. Sometimes they are true and sound funny because nobody is perfect. But that is exactly the reason why so many people are hopeful to find better partners. After all, what is more important to you, your relationship with the woman you love, or worrying about what other people think about you?