Learn Russian Women Better

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There are many western men who want to get acquainted with beautiful Russian ladies and find the best one whom they would marry in the future. So how can a man start writing to a Russian woman and interest her in his candidature?

First, learn as much as you can about the Russian culture. Pay attention to the cultural differences, especially to the things that are considered appropriate or inappropriate. For example, when you write your introductory letter to a nice Russian lady, it is better to use such greetings as Hello or Hi with her name. The word “dear” is equal to the word “honey” or “darling” in Russian and most likely would sound inappropriate for the first several letters.

If you want to pay a compliment to her beauty, make sure that you show genuine interest in her personality as well. Russian ladies are very intelligent and independent, and know the price of things perfectly well. For many of them, natural beauty is an inherent possession. It will be wiser if you give credit for their remarkable achievements, such as successes in studies or career development. Talks about how beautiful they are will make them think that all that you want from them is to make one of your possessions.

Remember that Russian women registering with the Internet matchmaking services look for compatible partners and potential husbands. If they see that you are not being honest, trustworthy, responsible and well-balanced, they will quit answering your letters.

What Is Wrong With Russian Men?

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One comment before proceeding with this article: it does not and cannot describe the situation of all Russian women who want to find their husbands abroad with the help of online matchmaking services. Nevertheless, there are some common reasons that make them look for their “second halves” in another country.

The main reason that makes beautiful Russian ladies register with Internet dating and marriage agencies is the realization of the fact that the majority of local men do not meet their criteria at all. It is a widespread observation that many Russian men are drunkards, womanizers and women abusers rolled into one. The level of domestic violence is really high in Russia: at least 10,000 women are killed by their spouses or partners annually.

Of course, not every man would beat and abuse his girlfriend or wife. Nevertheless, women’s common perception of men in the former Soviet Union countries is that they are infantile, shallow-hearted, rude and lazy. In addition, women who have ever encountered or, worse, lived with this type of men feel emotionally, physically and economically insecure.

Historically, women in Russia were the keepers of the family. They worked hard for the sake of their big families, including husbands, children and other relatives, putting aside their own needs. Modern Russian women are both independent and capable of giving. They still value family ties and are loving and caring.

Taking into consideration everything mentioned above, it becomes clear that Russian women apply for the services of matchmaking agencies to meet decent and responsible men to form loving and fulfilling relationships with. They look for compatible partners whom they can rely on and trust, because they failed to meet a person like that in their own country.

What You Should Know Before Dating a Russian Woman

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There are several cultural specifics you should know about before communicating with Russian women. It is common for Russian people to be reserved. They are not as sociable as Americans. A lady you are dating might seem a bit restrained, but it is just because she has to know you better. On the whole, it is hard for Russian women to express their feelings. So you have to be patient and understanding.

By the way, ladies from Ukraine are a bit more sociable than Russian women. But a Ukrainian wife would be more inclined to argue about different things than a Russian wife. Women from Belarus have something in common with both Russians and Ukrainians. But always remember that every person is unique, and you will never tell what kind of person the lady is until you communicate openly and learn each other better.

Russian people are not accustomed to demonstrating feelings openly. Such signs of affection as kisses and hugs are supposed to be intimate.

It is considered ok to hold hands while having a promenade together. Dating courtship is welcome in the form of helping her in and out of the car, opening doors in front of the lady, paying for her bill in a restaurant or a café, etc.

Do not immediately proceed to the talk about sex with a Russian woman. Sexual relations are expected to develop naturally. It might be really embarrassing and abnormal for her to discuss sexual positions in thorough detail before “all of it” happened.

When you get married you will be able to openly discuss sex together, but at the dating stage of a relationship, a Russian woman aims at passion rather than its technical side. Demonstrate your passion for her without needless talks.

What Makes Russian Women Immigrate to America?

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The recent statistics provided by "The Economist" revealed the fact that in the former Soviet Union countries like Russia and Ukraine there were only 88 men for 100 women. What it means is that more than 10 million women in Russia will never be able to get married.

Take a look at the 20th century history. 20 million Soviet people were killed during World War 2. 20 million fell victims of the concentration camps’ system. The majority of them were men.

The lack of partners made Russian women fight for the opportunities to find them. That is one of the reasons why they take such a good care of their looks.

Another reason why beautiful Russian ladies want to immigrate to America is in their expectation of a better social and economic situation and financial security. The thing is, the USA has always been a country of immigrants. Why should Russian ladies be different?

It goes without saying that those who had left their countries intended to improve their lives from every perspective. For example, citizens of Spain arrived to the New World in search of the mythical fountain of youth. The Englishmen were looking for the religious freedom. The Irish fled from the famine in their country not knowing they would face serious hardships in the new place as well.

It is not a secret that the attitude to the new waves of immigrants in the Western world is pretty negative, and Russian women are not an exception. But prejudice has nothing to do with real people until you know them personally.